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What costs are involved in surrogacy process that parents might not expect?
A breakdown of commonly overlooked costs in the surrogacy journey.
Children's Books About Surrogacy
Children’s books can be a beautiful way to help young minds understand the story of surrogacy — whether they are the children of intended parents, surrogates, or family members with questions of their own.
Does BFF surrogacy offer postpartum counseling?
An overview of postpartum counseling and emotional support for surrogates.
What if the parents do not allow me to see the baby after the birth, after saying they would? Is that it? How do surrogates deal with the disappointment and grief?
A thoughtful conversation about post-birth emotions, boundaries, and healing for surrogates.
Top Tips on How to Find the Right Egg Donor for Your Family
Choosing the right egg donor is a big deal. It’s about more than just matching physical traits; it’s about imagining a future, a family, and a life filled with joy. But with so many donor profiles to explore, it can feel a bit like dating, only with way more paperwork! So where do you start?
Why do gestational surrogates need to give themselves shots in order to get pregnant?
A clear explanation of why injections are part of the IVF process for gestational surrogates.
OB Care in a Surrogacy Journey
OB care during a surrogacy journey follows standard pregnancy care while honoring clear medical, legal, and privacy boundaries. This guide helps intended parents understand how obstetric care works in surrogacy, including patient roles, appointment structure, communication, delivery planning, and hospital protocols.
What type of restrictions or prohibited items happen for a gestational carrier during the surrogacy process?
Just like any pregnancy, restrictions are to be expected. What restrictions can surrogates expect that differ from their own pregnancies? Callie has the answer.
Can I apply to be a gestational carrier if I am currently breastfeeding my child?
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Bright Futures Families team member Janelle shares whether potential gestational carriers can apply to become a surrogate through our surrogacy agency if they are currently breastfeeding their own children.
Pieces to the Puzzle of Growing a Family Through Surrogacy: It Takes a Village
The journey of growing a family through surrogacy is complex, emotional, and full of moving pieces. Each story is unique, shaped by countless variables that bring both challenges and rewards. What is consistent, however, is that surrogacy is a group effort — truly, it takes a village.
What travel restrictions are typically in the legal contract for a surrogacy journey, and why?
Travel rules are a standard part of a gestational carrier contract. These limits help keep the GC and baby safe, and they help avoid legal complications around where parentage orders can be filed. Here’s what to expect — and why these guidelines are in place.
Do I have to be in a relationship, or can I be single when acting as a surrogate?
Thinking about becoming a surrogate but not currently in a relationship? Here’s what agencies and clinics look for — and how strong support is the key, no matter your relationship status.
Preparing Your Body for Embryo Transfer
Preparing your body for an embryo transfer is one of the most important steps on your surrogacy or IVF journey. From healthy habits and hormone support to rest and relaxation, small choices can make a big difference. Explore our top tips for giving your body the best chance at a smooth and successful transfer.
Will I have to travel a lot as a gestational carrier?
Curious how often you’ll be traveling as a surrogate? Here’s what you can expect — and what usually stays local.
How Changes in Reproductive Care Affects the Need for Surrogates
From new treatments that expand who can become parents to shifting laws and social acceptance, the role of gestational carriers has never been more vital.
Where should the pre-birth order (PBO) be done?
Confused about PBO filing? Here’s how your legal team determines the right state to establish parentage before delivery, and when during the journey it is done.
Do both attorneys need to be in the state the gestational carrier resides? What if I have an attorney I am working with that is not licensed in that state?
Unsure if both attorneys must be local? Here’s how legal representation works when lawyers are licensed in different states — and why GC-state knowledge matters.
What could slow down the process from the IP side?
Delays happen during the surrogacy process — and that’s okay. Here’s what might pause progress from the intended parents’ side and how to navigate the process smoothly.
Surrogacy for LGBTQ+ Parents: Your Beautiful Path to Parenthood
Surrogacy has become a beautiful, celebrated option for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples who are ready to bring a little one (or more!) into their lives. Whether you’re single, partnered, married, or creating your own unique family structure, your desire to become a parent is real, valid, and completely within reach.
What could slow down the process from the GC side?
Delays can happen — but understanding what may slow things down helps everyone stay prepared. Here’s what can pause progress from the GC side and how it’s managed.