The process of pumping breast milk after birth is optional and depends on mutual agreement between the gestational carrier and intended parents. Pumping and Insurance: Pumping breast milk after birth is optional; insurance often covers the pump, but parents may pay remaining costs. Supplies and Shipping: Intended parents handle milk bags, freezer bags, shipping costs, and may need sterilizers, bras, coolers, and ice packs. Compensation: Weekly payments are made to the carrier for pumping efforts, detailed in legal contracts to clarify responsibilities. Weaning Timeline: Weaning from pumping takes about 2-3 weeks; clear, ongoing communication helps manage expectations and comfort. Comfort Supplies: Optional items like heat packs and creams support carrier health but are not mandatory unless agreed in contracts.

The key to a smooth transition at birth is for intended parents to be present and ready to care for their newborn promptly. Intended parents must plan to be near the hospital starting at 36 weeks to ensure they can arrive when labor begins, as medical staff stop attempting to delay labor after this point. Amanda explains what happens if the parents have not made it to the hospital by the time the surrogate is discharged and the baby is supposed to be discharged.