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What travel restrictions are typically in the legal contract for a surrogacy journey, and why?
Travel rules are a standard part of a gestational carrier contract. These limits help keep the GC and baby safe, and they help avoid legal complications around where parentage orders can be filed. Here’s what to expect — and why these guidelines are in place.
Do I have to be in a relationship, or can I be single when acting as a surrogate?
Thinking about becoming a surrogate but not currently in a relationship? Here’s what agencies and clinics look for — and how strong support is the key, no matter your relationship status.
Will I have to travel a lot as a gestational carrier?
Curious how often you’ll be traveling as a surrogate? Here’s what you can expect — and what usually stays local.
Where should the pre-birth order (PBO) be done?
Confused about PBO filing? Here’s how your legal team determines the right state to establish parentage before delivery, and when during the journey it is done.
Do both attorneys need to be in the state the gestational carrier resides? What if I have an attorney I am working with that is not licensed in that state?
Unsure if both attorneys must be local? Here’s how legal representation works when lawyers are licensed in different states — and why GC-state knowledge matters.
What could slow down the process from the IP side?
Delays happen during the surrogacy process — and that’s okay. Here’s what might pause progress from the intended parents’ side and how to navigate the process smoothly.
What could slow down the process from the GC side?
Delays can happen — but understanding what may slow things down helps everyone stay prepared. Here’s what can pause progress from the GC side and how it’s managed.
Can we save money by sharing an attorney between the gestational carrier (GC) and the intended parents (IPs)?
Can you share an attorney in surrogacy to cut costs? In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, we break down why each party needs their own legal advocate — and how it benefits the entire journey.
What can intended parents do with their leftover frozen embryos?
Not sure what to do with leftover frozen embryos? You’re not alone. In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, we explain your options and help you navigate this important decision with confidence and care.
What's the strangest dietary restriction you've known IPs to ask of the GC? Did she do it?
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Bright Futures Families team member Janelle shares some of the strangest dietary restrictions intended parents have requested that their surrogate follow.
After a match is made, how long does the legal process take? (And much more info about the legal process!)
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Jenn explains how long legal contracts typically take during a surrogacy journey, when changes can be made, and the agency’s role in those conversations.
Do I have to pump breastmilk for my intended parents?
Learn how surrogates and intended parents decide on breast milk arrangements, what’s typically expected, and the options available for feeding the baby after birth.
Why do some intended parents/reproductive endocrinologists have gestational carriers go off all caffeine during the pregnancy?
Amanda explains why some IPs or medical professionals may require their surrogate to avoid caffeine during a surrogacy pregnancy.
Can you be a surrogate for a relative?
Learn how surrogacy within families can be a beautiful gift—when handled with care, communication, and clear boundaries.
I’m Pregnant as a Gestational Carrier. What Can I Take for a Cold?
Find out what’s safe to take for a cold during a surrogate pregnancy and why checking with your care team is always the first step.
When the baby is born, does the surrogate breastfeed at all, or is the baby bottle fed after birth?
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Jenn explains what typically happens after birth in a surrogacy journey—whether surrogates breastfeed, pump milk, or if babies are bottle-fed right away.
What do intended parents usually look for in a surrogate?
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Bright Futures Families team member Janelle discusses what intended parents typically look for in a surrogate—from communication and reliability to shared values and compassion—and how these connections help create strong, successful matches.
Why can’t I be on Medicaid and be a gestational carrier?
Jenn explains why gestational carriers can’t be on Medicaid or other government assistance programs. Learn what every surrogate and intended parent should know about insurance for a surrogacy journey before getting started.
Can I apply to be a gestational carrier if I am currently breastfeeding my child?
While you can apply to become a gestational carrier if you're still breastfeeding your own child, you'll need to be completely finished weaning before starting your surrogacy journey.
What if the intended parents die during our surrogacy journey? Am I responsible for the baby?
Legal documents will ensure that gestational carriers are not responsible for the intended parent's baby in the event of their death during their surrogacy journey.