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Do intended parents pick a surrogate, or does the surrogate pick the intended parents?
The surrogacy matching process is a mutual selection, where both gestational carriers and intended parents choose each other, ensuring alignment on key preferences and readiness. Bright Futures Families surrogacy agency facilitates match meetings to help limit awkwardness and ensure key topics are discussed.
Do I as the surrogate get to choose which fertility clinic I want to work with?
Intended parents choose fertility clinics prior to onboarding with the surrogacy agency, so no, gestational carriers do not choose their fertility clinic. Bright Futures Families considers the surrogate’s willingness to travel when presenting a potential match with intended parents. The need to travel is minimal, as surrogates generally visit clinic two to three times, mainly for embryo transfer and follow-ups.
How do you evaluate that all parties (IP, GC) goals and expectations line up?
Comprehensive screening process includes in-depth interviews to understand communication styles and emotional expectations
The Bright Futures Families team reviews preferences on contact during and after the journey to set clear boundaries
Screening also covers medical factors like termination options and vaccination status
This helps ensure both parties are known beyond just documents, promoting genuine compatibility