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What can intended parents do with their leftover frozen embryos?
Not sure what to do with leftover frozen embryos? You’re not alone. In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, we explain your options and help you navigate this important decision with confidence and care.
What's the strangest dietary restriction you've known IPs to ask of the GC? Did she do it?
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Bright Futures Families team member Janelle shares some of the strangest dietary restrictions intended parents have requested that their surrogate follow.
After a match is made, how long does the legal process take? (And much more info about the legal process!)
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Jenn explains how long legal contracts typically take during a surrogacy journey, when changes can be made, and the agency’s role in those conversations.
Do I have to pump breastmilk for my intended parents?
Learn how surrogates and intended parents decide on breast milk arrangements, what’s typically expected, and the options available for feeding the baby after birth.
Why do some intended parents/reproductive endocrinologists have gestational carriers go off all caffeine during the pregnancy?
Amanda explains why some IPs or medical professionals may require their surrogate to avoid caffeine during a surrogacy pregnancy.
Can you be a surrogate for a relative?
Learn how surrogacy within families can be a beautiful gift—when handled with care, communication, and clear boundaries.
I’m Pregnant as a Gestational Carrier. What Can I Take for a Cold?
Find out what’s safe to take for a cold during a surrogate pregnancy and why checking with your care team is always the first step.
When the baby is born, does the surrogate breastfeed at all, or is the baby bottle fed after birth?
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Jenn explains what typically happens after birth in a surrogacy journey—whether surrogates breastfeed, pump milk, or if babies are bottle-fed right away.
What do intended parents usually look for in a surrogate?
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Bright Futures Families team member Janelle discusses what intended parents typically look for in a surrogate—from communication and reliability to shared values and compassion—and how these connections help create strong, successful matches.
Why can’t I be on Medicaid and be a gestational carrier?
Jenn explains why gestational carriers can’t be on Medicaid or other government assistance programs. Learn what every surrogate and intended parent should know about insurance for a surrogacy journey before getting started.
Can I apply to be a gestational carrier if I am currently breastfeeding my child?
While you can apply to become a gestational carrier if you're still breastfeeding your own child, you'll need to be completely finished weaning before starting your surrogacy journey.
What if the intended parents die during our surrogacy journey? Am I responsible for the baby?
Legal documents will ensure that gestational carriers are not responsible for the intended parent's baby in the event of their death during their surrogacy journey.
Why can't I be a gestational carrier if I've had the Adeana or Assure procedure?
Danielle explains why it could pose a risk to a surrogate pregnancy if the gestational carrier has had the Adeana or Assure procedure.
Is the surrogate the biological mother of the child?
Gestational carriers with Bright Futures Families are not the biological mothers of the babies they carry. Watch Ashley’s video for more info!
Will I have to travel a lot as a gestational carrier?
While it’s hard to quantify “a lot'“, Amanda explains what potential surrogates can expect throughout the journey.
How do intended parents finance surrogacy if they don't have the cash on hand?
Most people don’t have the extra cash on hand to fund a surrogacy journey. Find out what options are available to intended parents and creative ways others have financed their surrogacy journeys.
What could slow down the clearing process from the GC side?
The gestational carrier’s timeliness on paperwork, medical workups, etc. can be a factor in how quickly the journey progresses.
What can intended parents do with their leftover frozen embryos?
It’s up to the intended parents what to do with their remaining frozen embryos after their surrogacy journey. Callie shares some of their options.
Is it ok to surprise my intended parents with bump pics?
Bump pics to intended parents—Yes or No? Amanda has the answer!
Do I have to pump breastmilk for my intended parents?
Danielle explains whether surrogates are required to pump breastmilk for intended parents after the birth. Like many of our answers, there is a bit of nuance.